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Comment on What is Sexy? by stelTful

stelTful — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 20:08:08 +0000

Sexy is not the way you look, but the way you look at me.

Comment on What is Sexy? by Amy

Amy — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:26:00 +0000

Sexy: still the fundamentals, I would argue. Engaging eyes and smile; symmetry and softness in women, broad shoulders and strong jawlines in men. It’s biological. Beyond that, it’s all up to the individual’s aesthetics. I’m very visual and auditory, so to me, someone who can stimulate me verbally / intellectually is usually someone I will find attractive. Society’s “version” of sexy is, at this point, a caricature of the truth, exaggerated and distorted to the point of absurdity.

Comment on What is Sexy? by JR Moreau

JR Moreau — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:06:26 +0000

Passion, assertiveness, intelligence, confidence, eye contact.

There are so many looks that are sexy too… probably too many to go into. I’ll stick with traits for now and might add later.

Comment on What is Sexy? by MickieD

MickieD — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:38:33 +0000

Intelligence, wit, sincerity, self assurance, a wry sense of humor and the ability to laugh at oneself… as well as an appreciation for a sense of the reduculous. Oh yes, and a dapper man in a sharp looking three-piece suit.

Comment on What is Sexy? by Julie Booth

Julie Booth — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 17:59:13 +0000

Smarts, kindness, wry sense of humor and a strong faith in a higher power (used for good).

Comment on What is Sexy? by anonymous

anonymous — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 17:06:40 +0000

Confidence, generosity, etc. I think that it is the internal qualities that define sexy-ness. Unfortunately in American culture many people chose to look at the outward qualities and overall beauty to define sexy. Also there seems to be a misconception among the young that you need to flaunt your “assets”, wear lots of makeup, and fit into some generic stereotype to be sexy.

Comment on What is Sexy? by Holly Page

Holly Page — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 15:34:16 +0000

I think the most universally sexy trait is having a good sense of self, and being confident about who you are. We are force-fed a lot of ideas of what is sexy, and subsequently many of us mimic those looks or personas rather than just be the best versions of ourselves.

But I think that in reality people are attracted to so many diverse looks and characteristics, that if we made it ok to be ourselves and to be attracted to what we like, nearly everything would be sexy, at least to someone else.

Oh, and I’m not usually so cheesy-idealistic, but I think that definitions of sexy should be at least as diverse as people are, given that we’re all sexual beings.

Comment on The Recession and our Generation of Hope by Urban LifeStyle Decor

Urban LifeStyle Decor — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:15:13 +0000

Beautifully written + wonderfully told.

Comment on Twitter Addict? What level are you? by AgapeLady

AgapeLady — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 18:45:24 +0000

Funny stuff! Is it possible to be more than 1 kind of addict? At home I have the desktop app… at the office, I check in every coupla hours when I can… lol! And there are times when I’m more of an addict than others. Can’t say I’ve tweeted after sex, but probably before… but only cuz I don’t have a laptop and the actual PC would be rather awkward in bed… or even on the nightstand! LOL! Anyway, I’m taking the 12 steps now so tweeple are seeing less of me on Twitter these days!

Comment on Twitter Addict? What level are you? by Gina LaGuardia

Gina LaGuardia — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 17:45:41 +0000

This is funny, though I’m not surprised, coming from you. I’d say I’m at a Level 3.5 with the one-time Level 4 transgression. (I did feel like a bit of a schmuck doing it, however, I was under a lot of — ahem — peer twessure.)